How to Move with Kids: Routines, Packing Hacks, and Goodbyes

Moving is consistently ranked as one of life’s most stressful events, and for families, that stress multiplies. In fact, roughly one-third of all moves in the U.S. involve households with children. That means millions of parents are trying to manage logistics, emotions, schedules, and school transitions all at once. 

When kids are part of the equation, moving isn’t just about packing boxes. It’s about helping your family feel secure, heard, and supported through change. The good news is that with the right approach, moving can become something your kids feel part of, not something that happens to them. That’s why The Sales Team Realtors are breaking down simple, thoughtful ways to help your kids feel involved, supported, and grounded before, during, and after a move.

 

Getting Kids to Buy Into the Move

One of the best ways to ease anxiety around a move is to give kids a sense of ownership in the process. When children feel included, they’re more likely to view the move as a shared family project instead of a disruption they didn’t choose. Start by talking openly about the move in age-appropriate terms and inviting their questions. Even small decisions can make a big difference in how secure they feel.

*Tip: Give your kids specific, manageable tasks so they feel helpful and involved. Younger kids can help sort toys into “keep,” “donate,” or “pack” piles, while older kids can label boxes, help create a packing checklist, or plan how they want their new room to look. These tasks provide structure and a sense of control, which can be incredibly reassuring during a time of change.

 

Packing Hacks When You Have Kids

Packing with kids doesn’t have to be chaos. A few smart strategies can save time, reduce stress, and keep everyone a little more sane:

 

• Pack one room at a time to avoid overwhelm and keep familiar spaces intact as long as possible.

• Let kids pack a “first night” box with favorite toys, pajamas, books, and comfort items.

• Use clear bins for toys and frequently used items so kids can still see what they have.

• Color-code boxes by room or child using stickers or markers.

• Pack essentials last, especially items used in daily routines like bath supplies and school gear.

• Turn packing into short sessions, not all-day events, to avoid burnout.

• Keep routines intact by packing around meals, naps, and bedtime whenever possible.

 

These small adjustments help maintain a sense of normalcy while still making steady progress.

 

Helping Kids Say Goodbye to School and Friends

Goodbyes are often the hardest part of moving for kids. Leaving behind friends, teachers, and familiar places can bring up big feelings, even if they’re excited about what’s ahead. Acknowledge those emotions instead of brushing past them. Let your kids know it’s okay to feel sad and excited at the same time.

Consider planning intentional goodbyes. This could look like a small get-together with close friends, a special outing to a favorite park or ice cream spot, or writing thank-you notes to teachers. For older kids, exchanging phone numbers or setting up virtual ways to stay in touch can help ease the transition. Creating closure around what they’re leaving behind makes space for them to embrace what’s next.

 

Re-Establishing Routines After the Move

Once the move is complete, routines become your best friend. Familiar schedules help kids feel safe and grounded, especially after a period of uncertainty. Try to return to regular mealtimes, bedtimes, and daily rhythms as quickly as possible, even if everything else still feels a bit unsettled.

It also helps to establish new routines that fit your new home and neighborhood. Walks after dinner, a weekly family night, or a consistent morning routine can help your kids feel anchored in their new environment. The faster life feels predictable again, the easier the emotional adjustment will be for everyone.

 

 

Moving with kids isn’t just about changing addresses—it’s about guiding your family through life’s transitions with care, patience, and empathy. With the right strategies, moving can become an opportunity for growth and a fresh start.

With The Sales Team Realtors, we understand that moving is hard, especially when kids are involved. Our job is to make your life easier before and after you get those new keys. If you’re planning a move and want a team that supports your family every step of the way, we’re here to help! Reach out today if you’re ready to take those next steps.